Desired Closeness
Measures how much emotional intimacy, shared experiences, and time together a person ideally wants within a romantic relationship.
Grand declarations are memorable, but relationships are often built through ordinary Tuesdays. Explore closeness, mutual effort, expressing affection, saying and hearing appreciation, spending focused time, helping in practical ways and taking romantic initiative. Find the small, everyday gestures that make a relationship feel cared for on both sides. This short edition contains 16 questions and typically takes about 4β6 minutes. Results are intended for personal reflection rather than clinical diagnosis.
Each dimension below is measured by questions in this assessment. Your report will reflect the answers you giveβnot a diagnosis, a percentile or an indicator of personal worth.
Measures how much emotional intimacy, shared experiences, and time together a person ideally wants within a romantic relationship.
Measures how important reasonably balanced emotional, practical, and relational contributions feel in a partnership, recognizing that fair contributions need not look identical.
Describes how openly warmth, fondness, and caring gestures are expressed toward a romantic partner, regardless of how much affection the person wishes to receive.
Reflects how often appreciation and affection are communicated through spoken words, written messages, or explicit compliments toward people one cares about.
Describes how important hearing spoken or written recognition, affection, and appreciation from a partner is for feeling valued in a relationship.
Explores the importance of spending attentive, distraction-limited time together as an expression of care and connection, independent of the overall quantity of time spent together.
Describes a tendency to demonstrate care by solving practical problems, helping with tasks, or taking useful action rather than relying primarily on words or gestures.
Measures willingness to initiate romantic plans, invitations, and expressions of interest rather than primarily waiting for a partner to make the first move.
The questions invite you to reflect on your usual choices and reactions. A quiet moment and an honest response will make the report more useful to you.
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